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Your Midlife Journey and an iPad 2

April '11

Until last week, “late adopter”, or “laggard” would best describe my technology-buying behavior. However, when my iMac of six years crashed with burnt-out capacitors, I succumbed to an Apple Store salesman’s suggestion that I add an iPad 2 to my new iMac purchase.

Perhaps it was the story he told about his father, the lawyer, who lined up outside the Providence Place Mall at 4:00am in hopes of owning one of the few iPad 2’s due to arrive that day. Unlike his Dad, I didn’t even know I wanted one until I entered that same store. I simply got lucky.

This purchase dropped me into unknown territory as I grappled with how to manage all the new technology it represented. I continuously sought guidance from the Apple specialists, but their conflicting advice left me wound into a tight ball of frustration. After a week of looking to others for help, I decideded to figure out by myself how to coordinate thousands of old Entourage files with a new Outlook system, and/or go with Mac mail to synch better with my iPad 2 – along with other similar challenges.

I am, for now, up and running. Despite a week I’d prefer to forget, I’m very happy the young man suggested I buy the iPad 2; I love it! (I actually composed this month’s newsletter on it, curled up on a comfy couch in my sunroom.)

As I was recounting my encounters with all this new technology to a friend (well, whining hard would be a better description), I realized this experience could be a mini-metaphor for what happens when you find yourself in the midst of “midlife malaise.” Your capacitors (capacity to hold energy, like a computer’s ability to hold electricity) are burnt out. You understand you need something different, but feel clueless as to how to proceed. You seek the guidance of experts and kvetch to friends, but in the end, the answer really lies within you.

Reinventing yourself at midlife is, of course, a more complicated and longer process than installing new technology, but in both cases, the ultimate knowledge of how best to move forward belongs to the owner. So what about you? Have you faced a daunting situation where you were able to tune into your own intuitive wisdom and find direction, or discover new truths?  What helped you to move forward?  Love to hear about it!

Next week I’ll announce the publication of a new eBook, where I have a chapter that describes just such a period in my own life.

Until then,


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  1. Wendy hanson said on May 1, 2011:

    Very well put Bonnie! I’m sure we can all describe the same issues- different technologies. As frustrating as it is- we do have the answer within ourselves. Thanks….

  2. Bonnie said on May 1, 2011:

    Great to hear from you! And it is an inside job: )

  3. Elaine said on May 4, 2011:

    Impressed here Bonnie. I am still on a laptop. Good for you. Elaine

  4. Jill said on May 4, 2011:

    I HATE the new font that apparently is the default of your new iPad 2. Not because I am a “late adopter” but because it is really difficult to read.

  5. Bonnie said on May 4, 2011:

    Hi Elaine!

    Thanks for your kudos, but I am still in learning mode as Jill’s comment reveals.

  6. Bonnie said on May 4, 2011:

    Hi Jill!

    I so appreciate this feedback; without it I would have no way of knowing this happened and making corrections. I’m guessing the hard-to-read font is the result of my entering this month’s newsletter via Safari rather than Firefox, which is my usual choice. (One of the many glitches I encountered with all this new technology is that Firefox was temporarily acting up and unavailable.)

    I will use Firefox the next time; perhaps I can count on you to let me know if the font is still hard to read. It came through beautifully on my computer and iPad, so that’s why an outside eye like yours is so useful.

    Thank you,

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